What does it mean to add value to someone?

The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines “value” as “the worth of something in terms of the amount of other things for which it can be exchanged.” So, when you add value to someone, you’re essentially giving them something that has worth in their eyes.

But what does adding value mean for you?

In short, it means becoming somebody that other people want to be around. It means becoming somebody that people want to learn from, emulate and associate with. It means becoming somebody that people want to do business with.

Most importantly, it means becoming somebody that other people respect and admire.

There’s a common saying that goes, “If you want to have a happy life, befriend someone who will bring sunshine with them wherever they go.”

This saying references the idea of having someone to always lift your spirits and make you happy – like the presence of a sunny day. People who can bring that sense of joyousness and positivity into your life are known as ‘life givers’. The people who drain our energy instead are known as ‘life takers’. Just like how we take in the good vibes from others, others also take in the good vibes from us. Whenever we encounter someone new or have an interaction with them for the first time, we enter into an exchange of different thoughts and feelings.

This might seem insignificant at first, but over time these exchanges build up until they become one of the most important relationships in your life. That person might not realize it yet, but they are now part of what makes you so happy or unhappy.

In general, how do you interact with people? Do you give them compliments when they deserve it? Are you kind to them even if you don’t want to be? Do you hold back your opinions about them because it might hurt their feelings?

Or do you just avoid interacting with other people whenever possible? You see where I am going with this… If a stranger is able to influence your outlook on life then that person is a valuable addition to your happiness.

“Keep going is keep growing only if one keeps adding values in others’ lives through the path of his life’s journey’.

– Anuj

Why is it important to add value to others?

Value is a crucial component of success. When you add value to the world, you are helping others. When people know that you have their best interests at heart, they are much more likely to trust you and work with you.

There are a few ways you can provide value to others and make them feel special. One way is by connecting with them on a deep level. You may not know what they need right at that moment or if the person will even appreciate it, but connecting with someone on a deep level means that person feels unique and valued in your life.

Another way is by giving them your time without expecting anything in return. Of course, this could be difficult depending on the situation, but if you’re able to give someone your time without expectation then they will have an appreciation for you that lasts longer than any other form of gratitude. Also, it is important to remember that we should never underestimate the power of being nice for the sake of being nice. Whether it is an act of kindness or something smaller like complimenting someone’s outfit, we should always make sure to put meaning behind our actions and remember why we are doing what we are doing in the first place.

The best part about adding value to others is that it will not only change your life too, but also those around you are likely to change as well. If we see that someone else is willing to go the extra mile for us then we will always want to do more for them in return. They might be a one-time thing or they could stick around forever – but regardless, adding value to others will make you happier as well as those around you.

How can I provide value?

Value can take many forms, including time, effort, knowledge, expertise, experience, and skill.

A person who can provide value to others is someone who knows how to make others feel good about themselves. They know how to make people feel valued and appreciated, which makes them more likely to be happy and have better relationships with others.

Hera are some examples of things that you can do to provide value to other human being:

Share your experience 

Do you know a better way to do something? Share it with people looking for for that outcome. The simple act of sharing your experiences can help other people to change their perspective.

People also value time, so if they see that you are willing to save them some time by sharing your experience, they will value you for that.

I’m not just talking about professional life, but in all areas. Maybe you’re an athlete and you know a better workout that you can recommend to your colleague, or you did a diet that helped you get in shape.

Don’t let other reinvent the wheel if you already know the path.

Share your ideas and knowledge

Do you know what the “False consensus effect” is? According to Wikipedia, it is when people assume that their personal qualities, characteristics, beliefs, and actions are relatively widespread through the general population. In other words, just because you know something it does not mean that other people have the same idea or knowledge. Sharing that information with others can put you in a position of value giver.

When you are in school, you are taught that the best way to learn something is to teach it to someone else. This is called learning by teaching. It is also a great way to build your own knowledge and experience.

Listen to others and show them that you care

It’s so easy to zone out in the busy world we live in, but it’s important to hear what others are saying. Even if you disagree with them or don’t agree with their point of view, listening can show that you care about them and understand where they’re coming from.

While it can be difficult at times, it’s worth the effort. It will show those around you that you care and are interested in their opinions and thoughts. They will feel more comfortable sharing with you and may even feel more comfortable asking questions of their own if they think that you might know the answer.

This might sound simple, but you do not have idea how much value you can add in other person’s lives in the long-term by doing this.

“Strive not to be a success but rather to be of value”

-Albert Einstein

Express your affection

Showing affection to other people is one of the most important things you can do to create connection. Whether you’re showing your partner love through physical intimacy, telling them how much you care about them, or simply being there for them when they need support, these are all ways to show that you care about them and that you value their presence in your life.

In addition to creating connection with others, showing affection can also have a positive effect on your wellbeing. A growing body of research suggests that showing caring and kindness towards others can have a positive impact on physical health, including reducing stress levels and improving overall resilience. Additionally, showing basic acts of kindness such as smiling at strangers or helping out a friend can lead to more rewarding experiences in the future because it builds good habits that will be easier to replicate in the future.

Make others feel good around you

People end to come back where they were happy, where they felt safe and understood.

When you come across someone new in your life, there are a few things you can do to make them feel welcome.

be friendly and engaging when you’re around the person. Smile, make eye contact, and try to have some fun together. This will make the person feel more comfortable around you and will also help to forge a stronger connection with them over time.

Give compliments. Keep in mind that a simple sincere compliment can make someone else’s day.

Finally, be honest and sincere when you’re talking to the person. Don’t pretend to know something that you don’t know or try to be somebody that you’re not just to impress the person. The best thing that you can do is be yourself around the person and let them see who you are for who you are.

Conclusion

You can provide value to other people in many different ways. Some examples include helping people solve a problem or achieving a goal, sharing knowledge, expertise, or experience, or lending a helping hand when others need assistance.

Always keep in mind that you have something unique that people appreciate. It doesn’t matter if the value you give to others is not material. The simple act of offering your company, time or advice can make a difference to the people around you. Learn to identify what makes you unique and offer it to others without expecting anything in return.